We go all the way back to the Garden of Eden to see the first marriage in action. Adam was in charge of the garden and given the assignment to name all the animals. God created a helpmate for him—a woman over whom he was to spread his wings of love and protection, a woman to support, nourish, and cherish.

 

But where was Adam when Eve was tempted? What responsibility did Adam take when God confronted him with his sin?

 

None, it would appear. Instead of leading, Adam was following. But even more devastating than this, he abdicated his leadership responsibility. The God who searches the depths of our hearts called out to Adam. God didn’t say, “Eve, Eve, where are you?” He called Adam even though He knew who did what.

 

The Scripture says a husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church (see Ephesians 5:25). How does Christ love the church? He gives Himself up for her. God’s love is all-sacrificing. There is not a tinge of selfishness. It is willful, determined love. His love for her is not dependent upon His feeling or mood. It is a constant love. His love for her is nourishing, cherishing, sustaining.

 

There is only one way in which this tall order can be fulfilled. It is through obedience to God and His Word. The lines of authority have been spelled out since the day of creation. The husband is responsible to God, not his wife. The wife is responsible, in the Lord, to her husband. This is God’s standard, not man’s standard. And when we obey it, we find fulfillment. The result is oneness, peace, and harmony.

 

Prayer: Father, thank You for demonstrating the way a husband is to love his wife as You love the church. Thank You for the peace and fulfillment that we have when we follow Your standards for marriage. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

 

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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