If we desire to have true integrity of heart, we must not be shy about checking our motives with regularity. No matter how much we love God and desire to serve Him, we must be on guard against selfish ambitions that tend to creep into our hearts.

We have the tendency to compare our own journey with the journeys of others—and when it looks like we are not getting a fair shake, we begin to plot and scheme. Whenever our selfish ambitions take over, we say and do things that grieve God's heart. Instead of acting lovingly, we act selfishly. Our goal subtly switches from serving God to serving ourselves. If we are not careful, our purpose in life will become to fulfill our wants, regardless of the cost.

This scenario arises in many different facets of life. In relationships, in work environments, in churches, in families—we begin to seek to satisfy ourselves rather than serve others. When we suspect this attitude in our lives, we can ask ourselves some questions to shed light on our hearts. Are our actions vengeful? Are our hearts covetous and ambitious? Are we impatient with God's timing?

Loving others squelches such attitudes. Instead of trying to exact revenge, we begin to show mercy and love. The ambitions in our hearts fade as we turn our focus back to our loving Savior, remembering we were “bought at a price” (1 Corinthians 6:20). As James reminds us: "Mercy triumphs over judgment" (James 2:13).

Living with integrity means we choose to live God's way over our own. We choose to live by His rules, which include putting others before ourselves.

Prayer: Lord, help me to imitate the humility of Christ, who gave His life for me. Help me to take up my cross and die to self, not looking to my own interests but to the interests of others. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen. 

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires” (Galatians 5:24).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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