If you were to name the antithesis of happiness, mourning might be a good choice. When we think of mourning, we think of loss—the loss of dreams, opportunities, or loved ones. But Jesus says, “Blessed are those who mourn” (Matthew 5:4). But it’s not just any mourning He’s talking about; it’s mourning over our sin. It’s the natural response to the discovery of our brokenness. That’s why mourning follows poverty of spirit in Jesus’ superstructure of the beatitudes. When we realize our desperate need for God and see the sin in our lives that has kept us from Him, we will mourn.

But why does mourning over our sin make us happy or blessed? Because when we mourn our sin, we can experience the comfort, joy, and strength of God’s forgiveness. When we confess and mourn over our failures and shortcomings, the comfort that Jesus gives is sweeter than words can describe.

It sounds strange, but it’s true: Jesus tells us the way to happiness is sadness, and the road to rejoicing is mourning. This is foolishness to the world. Until you come to the cross, you can’t see it; you can’t comprehend it. The apostle John put it this way, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9)—and that is all the reason in the world to be happy.

Prayer: God, help me to see my sin and to mourn it. As I humble myself, I know You will lift me up in Your lovingkindness. Thank You that you promise to forgive me and purify me as I confess my sins to You in humble repentance. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted” (Matthew 5:4).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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