Romans 12:9-21.

In this age of self-care, self-discipline seems to be a dirty word. But good intentions and warm, fuzzy feelings toward God won’t turn us into fruitful Christians. To be a fruitful Christian, we must submit to the Lord Jesus Christ in everything we do—from the way we spend our money to the way we spend our time.

Self-discipline is foregoing that which is easy but wrong for that which is difficult but right. For Bible-believing Christians, this means submitting everything in our lives to the authority of the Word of God. In doing so, we make Him the true Lord of our lives.

In Romans 12:9-21, Paul shows us eight characteristics of Christlike love that are the fruit of a disciplined life:

1.      Love hates evil (v. 9).

2.      Love gives honor (v. 10).

3.      Love is passionate about God (v. 11).

4.      Love hopes and perseveres in prayer (v. 12).

5.      Love gives (v. 13).

6.      Love feels deeply with others (vv. 14-15).

7.      Love refuses to get even (vv. 16-19).

8.      Love reverses cultural norms (vv. 20-21).

Only by surrendering to the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives can we seek to follow such sacrificial commands. Only by His power can we surrender every area of our lives to Him. As we do, the world will see Christ in us—and they will know that we are His.

Prayer: Father, empower me by Your Spirit to grow in Christlike love. May the people around me see the wondrous transformation You are making in my heart and glorify Your name. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord” (Romans 12:9-11).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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