The Bible records an occasion in which Peter approached Jesus with a question: “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me?” Now, Peter must have thought he was a benevolent guy, offering Jesus his own answer to the question, “Up to seven times?” (Matthew 18:21). But Jesus exposed the error in Peter’s thinking—the way Peter’s heart did not align with His: “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times’” (v. 22). We should forgive others until we lose count. After all, it’s not really forgiveness if we are keeping score.

Similarly, our prayer life is hindered by an unforgiving spirit. In the parable of the unmerciful servant in Matthew 18:23-35, Jesus tells us about a servant who owes his master more money than he can earn in a lifetime. The master, though, is gracious and forgives the poor slave’s debt. But when he leaves his master’s presence, the servant encounters a friend who owes him a small sum—and he refuses to forgive.

If we fail to forgive others the way God forgave us, we are broadcasting to the world that we are out of step with God’s heart. What we are really saying is that we disagree with the lavish manner in which the Lord forgives. The world hears that message, and so does God. So don’t let the issue of forgiveness, whichever side you’re on, hinder your prayer life.

Prayer: Lord, let the message of my life be that the Lord forgives and I am saved by Your grace. I rejoice in Your lavish love. Help me to expel bitterness and resentment and rather pour out Your love and forgiveness to those around me by Your power, remembering what You have done for me. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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