Almost everyone can remember at least one bully from school—especially if they shoved you on the playground, teased people relentlessly, or threatened and manipulated others. But bullies aren’t found only in the schoolyard. Bullies exist in our families, in our workplaces, and in our communities.

A bully is someone who desires to control and abuse others. Bullies seek power by making others feel powerless. They find enjoyment in criticizing and ridiculing others.

In the book of Daniel, we meet a king who was the epitome of a bullying leader. King Nebuchadnezzar ruled the Babylonian Empire when, as a young teen, Daniel and his friends were captured and sent to study at the king’s palace. In Daniel 2, we learn that King Nebuchadnezzar was so troubled by a dream that he planned to kill all his wise men—including Daniel and his friends—because they could not interpret it for him.

As Daniel and his three friends faced execution, they prayed together throughout the night and sought God’s divine intervention. Because God was on their side, Daniel was given the insight to interpret the dream. Daniel’s next action gives us wisdom for dealing with bullies.

Daniel first approached the matter carefully. He didn’t confront the king directly until he understood the situation better. Daniel 2:14 tells us, “When Arioch, the commander of the king’s guard, had gone out to put to death the wise men of Babylon, Daniel spoke to him with wisdom and tact.” Daniel was not quick to fight back. He gathered information from Arioch and then approached the king: “At this, Daniel went in to the king and asked for time, so that he might interpret the dream for him” (Daniel 2:16).

Prayer: God, I pray that when I have to deal with a bully in life, I will come to You for help and not be quick to fight back. Help me to always come to You for discernment. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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