I just found out my kid’s a cheater.
That’s embarrassing. You raised your kids to love the Lord, be honest, work hard, and be a person of integrity. Then we realize—they’re not. We feel like a failure. Where did we go wrong? If we ARE teaching our kids those things, we’re not failures. We have to remember that we’re raising little sinners who need Jesus. We can’t expect them to be perfect little angels. Without Christ, they can’t be. What’s important is how we try to correct this. Don’t lose your cool and sin yourself. Sternly tell them WHY it’s wrong to cheat. It’s stealing. And it’s sin. I love what Proverbs says, “the integrity of the honest keeps them on track; the deviousness of crooks brings them to ruin” (MSG).
Who is Jesus REALLY?
Sunday is Palm Sunday—what a powerful moment in history. Jesus rides into Jerusalem, and the crowd shouts, “Hosanna!” But just days later, they shout, “Crucify Him.” It’s a great time to ask our kids—Who do you say Jesus is? Is He just a good teacher or the King of Kings and Lord of lords? Talk about it as a family. Read the passion story together in the Bible. Help them understand that Jesus didn’t come just to be popular—He came to save by dying on the cross and rising again. Let’s raise kids who don’t just cheer for Jesus one day and walk away the next. Let’s help them follow Him every day, even when people are teasing or rejecting them.
Wait, there are HOW many genders?
Culture’s loud right now—telling the next generation that gender is a feeling, not a fact. But God’s Word is clear—He created us male and female. Period. As Christian parents, we need to lovingly, clearly teach our kids what God says about identity – especially as our kids friends may come out as transgender. It’s not about hate—it’s about truth. Encourage gentleness, but firmly help them see they’re fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image—on purpose. And when the questions come—and they will—don’t panic. Go back to Scripture. We need to teach our kids how to respond in love without compromising truth.
I’m sick of the social media struggle
Social media—it’s where our kids/teens try to live these days. But let’s be honest, it’s a minefield. Comparison. Identity struggles. Inappropriate content. Are we talking with our kids about what they’re seeing? Are we helping them filter everything through a biblical lens? Philippians 4:8 gives us a guide—whatever is true, noble, pure, lovely… think on these things. So let’s ask: Does this app reflect that? Are these friends encouraging godliness? Social media can be a tool—or a trap. Let’s not just monitor our kids—let’s mentor them to make wise, Christ-centered decisions online. Remember, too, they’re watching us.
Is toughness a sign of being a man?
There’s a lot of confusion out there about what it means to be a man. Culture says, “Be tough. Be dominant. Never cry.” But biblical masculinity? That’s different. It’s about walking humbly with God, showing mercy, doing what’s right. Strength isn’t loud or forceful—it’s servant-hearted. Are we teaching our boys that? Are we modeling it? Show them that real leadership lifts others up. That integrity matters more than image. That emotions aren’t weakness—they’re part of God’s design. Let’s raise boys who follow Jesus first—and lead with love and humility. Micah 6:8 should be our focus, “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
My kids don’t want me around
Being a grandparent used to feel like a gift. Now, it feels like a rejection. You want to invest in your grandkids, but your adult kids keep you at a distance. It’s painful. But don’t give up. Keep showing up with love, grace, and patience. Pray daily for open doors and softened hearts. Avoid bitterness—it won’t help. Be the safe place your grandkids know they can count on. Share your faith through letters, video messages, or even a quick text. God sees your heart. Keep sowing seeds, even if you don’t see the harvest yet. Remember Psalm 145:4, “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.”
Country music—it’s…depressing.
Two of my adult daughters love country music. I’m not here to tell you whether or not our kids should listen, but I am here today wondering about it. I was riding with my youngest daughter when she was playing it on the radio. One song said, “People say I have a drinking problem, but I got no problem drinking at all.” Right after that, a song about meeting a woman in a provocative outfit in a bar. Then another song with words that, well, would’ve gotten my kids in trouble. Here’s the question I asked, “Why do you listen to this stuff?” While the melody was kind of catchy, the lyrics were what Proverbs calls devious or crude talk, which we’re not supposed to do. Without being legalistic, tell me what YOU think. Comment at ParentMinute.org.
My son’s not turning in his homework.
That IS frustrating. We went through it. Yeah, the work got done. We made sure of it. But when it came to turning it in, it just didn’t get done. Maybe that’s your situation, or maybe your child is just not doing it at all. This can be for a number of reasons. In my experience, some kids just want to be in control. For others, they’re embarrassed because they don’t understand it and are afraid to ask for help. Or maybe they’re just lazy. Whatever the situation, it all boils down to sin—yep, selfishness. If they’re young, change the behavior quickly before it becomes a habit. If they’re older, punitive but disciplined action will be needed. Speaking from experience, do it in love. My frustration and anger wasn’t very effective.
Why don’t they want to hang out with me anymore, Dad?
That question breaks your heart. Your kid’s been excluded—for following Jesus. It hurts. But it’s not new. Jesus said this would happen. So, what do we do? First, listen—let them feel the loss. Then remind them: choosing Christ is always worth it. Help them understand this is part of being a disciple. Encourage them to love those friends anyway. And surround them with other kids who love Jesus. Remind them that Jesus never leaves, even when others do. This is a hard lesson—but it’s also one that can anchor their faith for life. Remember John 15:18, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.”
How can I raise a Proverbs 31 woman as a single dad?
Being a dad and a widower is hard enough. Raising a daughter to be a Proverbs 31 woman? That feels impossible some days. But Dad—you’re not alone. God fills the gaps. Show your daughter the value of inner beauty, integrity, and a heart for God. Talk openly about character, modesty, and strength. Pray with her. Celebrate her wisdom and kindness more than her looks or talents. Let trusted Christian women invest in her too—mentors, teachers, church leaders. You don’t have to be Mom. You just need to be present, prayerful, and intentional. And trust God to shape her heart in ways you can’t. Quote Proverbs 31:30 often. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”