Wait, there are HOW many genders?
Culture’s loud right now—telling the next generation that gender is a feeling, not a fact. But God’s Word is clear—He created us male and female. Period. As Christian parents, we need to lovingly, clearly teach our kids what God says about identity – especially as our kids friends may come out as transgender. It’s not about hate—it’s about truth. Encourage gentleness, but firmly help them see they’re fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image—on purpose. And when the questions come—and they will—don’t panic. Go back to Scripture. We need to teach our kids how to respond in love without compromising truth.
I’m sick of the social media struggle
Social media—it’s where our kids/teens try to live these days. But let’s be honest, it’s a minefield. Comparison. Identity struggles. Inappropriate content. Are we talking with our kids about what they’re seeing? Are we helping them filter everything through a biblical lens? Philippians 4:8 gives us a guide—whatever is true, noble, pure, lovely… think on these things. So let’s ask: Does this app reflect that? Are these friends encouraging godliness? Social media can be a tool—or a trap. Let’s not just monitor our kids—let’s mentor them to make wise, Christ-centered decisions online. Remember, too, they’re watching us.
Is toughness a sign of being a man?
There’s a lot of confusion out there about what it means to be a man. Culture says, “Be tough. Be dominant. Never cry.” But biblical masculinity? That’s different. It’s about walking humbly with God, showing mercy, doing what’s right. Strength isn’t loud or forceful—it’s servant-hearted. Are we teaching our boys that? Are we modeling it? Show them that real leadership lifts others up. That integrity matters more than image. That emotions aren’t weakness—they’re part of God’s design. Let’s raise boys who follow Jesus first—and lead with love and humility. Micah 6:8 should be our focus, “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
My kids don’t want me around
Being a grandparent used to feel like a gift. Now, it feels like a rejection. You want to invest in your grandkids, but your adult kids keep you at a distance. It’s painful. But don’t give up. Keep showing up with love, grace, and patience. Pray daily for open doors and softened hearts. Avoid bitterness—it won’t help. Be the safe place your grandkids know they can count on. Share your faith through letters, video messages, or even a quick text. God sees your heart. Keep sowing seeds, even if you don’t see the harvest yet. Remember Psalm 145:4, “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.”
Country music—it’s…depressing.
Two of my adult daughters love country music. I’m not here to tell you whether or not our kids should listen, but I am here today wondering about it. I was riding with my youngest daughter when she was playing it on the radio. One song said, “People say I have a drinking problem, but I got no problem drinking at all.” Right after that, a song about meeting a woman in a provocative outfit in a bar. Then another song with words that, well, would’ve gotten my kids in trouble. Here’s the question I asked, “Why do you listen to this stuff?” While the melody was kind of catchy, the lyrics were what Proverbs calls devious or crude talk, which we’re not supposed to do. Without being legalistic, tell me what YOU think. Comment at ParentMinute.org.