Do we talk about sanctity of life in our family?
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Ephesians 1:4
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Psalms 139:13-14
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My kids are always freaking out!
Have you noticed how anxious kids are these days? School stress. Social pressure. Global chaos. Even our young ones are carrying heavy burdens. Crazy thing is, we are too. So how do we help? First—let’s focus on Jesus. He’s our peace, not our spiritual perfectionist. Pray with them. Remind them that God’s in control—even when life feels out of control. Even that is there to help mold us into who He wants us to be. Memorize Scripture with them. Spend time in devotions like Keys for Kids or Unlocked. Philippians 4 says not to be anxious about anything, but to bring everything to God in prayer. That promise isn’t just for us—it’s for our kids too. Let’s teach them to trust, not tremble.
Marriage is still sacred, but do my kids think so?
Marriage is under attack today. Our kids are seeing everything from cohabitation to same-sex relationships portrayed as normal—even celebrated. But God designed marriage—between one man and one woman—for His glory. Are we teaching that clearly at home? Don’t let culture define marriage for your kids. Talk openly. Show them what a godly marriage looks like. Be honest about mistakes. Talk about commitment, sacrifice, and love rooted in Christ and God’s Word. And most importantly—pray with your kids about their possible future spouse. Marriage matters. Let’s raise the next generation to not just honor God’s design but continue a legacy of faith to the next generation.
Cancel culture is scary, how do I help my kids?
Cancel culture—it’s everywhere. One wrong counter-cultural opinion, and you’re out. Our kids are watching this happen and wondering: Should I stay quiet about my faith in Christ? Parents, we’ve got to raise bold kids who stand for truth—even when it costs them. Remind them of Daniel. Of Paul. Of Jesus. God honors those who stand firm. Will it be easy? No. But He’s worth it. Teach your kids to speak the truth in love, not fear. When I say truth, I mean Scripture. Speaking that will always accomplish its intended purpose and not return to Him empty or without effect. And remind them—God’s approval matters more than any “likes” or followers. Get the Unlocked teen devotional at https://unlocked.org/subscribe
Chances are, we’re lying to our kids.
“You’re the best!” “You were singing better than everybody up there.” “You hit the ball further than all the other kids.” If it’s true, you’re not lying. But if they’re not the best, is it lying to tell our kids these things, or should we be truthful? I know it’s important to help our kids with confidence. We need to show them how much we believe in them, but lying to them may hurt your relationship. Eventually, they’ll figure it out. Some will even wonder, “What else are they lying about?” Say things like, “You really gave it your all today, didn’t you? I’m so proud of you.” Or, “Your practice really paid off, didn’t it? Great job.” Speaking the TRUTH in love can build trust for the future.
I just found out my kid’s a cheater.
That’s embarrassing. You raised your kids to love the Lord, be honest, work hard, and be a person of integrity. Then we realize—they’re not. We feel like a failure. Where did we go wrong? If we ARE teaching our kids those things, we’re not failures. We have to remember that we’re raising little sinners who need Jesus. We can’t expect them to be perfect little angels. Without Christ, they can’t be. What’s important is how we try to correct this. Don’t lose your cool and sin yourself. Sternly tell them WHY it’s wrong to cheat. It’s stealing. And it’s sin. I love what Proverbs says, “the integrity of the honest keeps them on track; the deviousness of crooks brings them to ruin” (MSG).
Who is Jesus REALLY?
Sunday is Palm Sunday—what a powerful moment in history. Jesus rides into Jerusalem, and the crowd shouts, “Hosanna!” But just days later, they shout, “Crucify Him.” It’s a great time to ask our kids—Who do you say Jesus is? Is He just a good teacher or the King of Kings and Lord of lords? Talk about it as a family. Read the passion story together in the Bible. Help them understand that Jesus didn’t come just to be popular—He came to save by dying on the cross and rising again. Let’s raise kids who don’t just cheer for Jesus one day and walk away the next. Let’s help them follow Him every day, even when people are teasing or rejecting them.
Wait, there are HOW many genders?
Culture’s loud right now—telling the next generation that gender is a feeling, not a fact. But God’s Word is clear—He created us male and female. Period. As Christian parents, we need to lovingly, clearly teach our kids what God says about identity – especially as our kids friends may come out as transgender. It’s not about hate—it’s about truth. Encourage gentleness, but firmly help them see they’re fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image—on purpose. And when the questions come—and they will—don’t panic. Go back to Scripture. We need to teach our kids how to respond in love without compromising truth.
I’m sick of the social media struggle
Social media—it’s where our kids/teens try to live these days. But let’s be honest, it’s a minefield. Comparison. Identity struggles. Inappropriate content. Are we talking with our kids about what they’re seeing? Are we helping them filter everything through a biblical lens? Philippians 4:8 gives us a guide—whatever is true, noble, pure, lovely… think on these things. So let’s ask: Does this app reflect that? Are these friends encouraging godliness? Social media can be a tool—or a trap. Let’s not just monitor our kids—let’s mentor them to make wise, Christ-centered decisions online. Remember, too, they’re watching us.
Is toughness a sign of being a man?
There’s a lot of confusion out there about what it means to be a man. Culture says, “Be tough. Be dominant. Never cry.” But biblical masculinity? That’s different. It’s about walking humbly with God, showing mercy, doing what’s right. Strength isn’t loud or forceful—it’s servant-hearted. Are we teaching our boys that? Are we modeling it? Show them that real leadership lifts others up. That integrity matters more than image. That emotions aren’t weakness—they’re part of God’s design. Let’s raise boys who follow Jesus first—and lead with love and humility. Micah 6:8 should be our focus, “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
My kids don’t want me around
Being a grandparent used to feel like a gift. Now, it feels like a rejection. You want to invest in your grandkids, but your adult kids keep you at a distance. It’s painful. But don’t give up. Keep showing up with love, grace, and patience. Pray daily for open doors and softened hearts. Avoid bitterness—it won’t help. Be the safe place your grandkids know they can count on. Share your faith through letters, video messages, or even a quick text. God sees your heart. Keep sowing seeds, even if you don’t see the harvest yet. Remember Psalm 145:4, “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.”