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What is the Gospel?

Parents, teaching your kids the gospel is the most important thing you’ll ever do. It’s not the church’s job—it’s yours. Don’t overthink it. Keep it simple and clear. Here’s the truth: we’re all sinners. We’ve all broken God’s law. And because of that, we need a Savior. That Savior is Jesus. He died on the cross for our sins, was buried, and rose a…read more

One excels, the other doesn’t!

One kid is the star athlete—the other, not so much. How do you celebrate one without discouraging the other? First, affirm their unique strengths—because God made them different for a reason! Maybe one dominates on the field, but the other has a gift for leadership, creativity, or compassion. Praise them both for their effort, not just results. 1 Corinthians 12 reminds us we are all different parts of the same body—each with a purpose. Colossians 3 tells us to do everything as for the Lord and not for men – we’re actually serving the Lord himself. Encourage teamwork, not comparison. Success isn’t just about winning—it’s about glorifying God in whatever we do.

How could my kids turn away from Christ?

Few things break a parent’s heart more than hearing, “I don’t believe in Jesus anymore.” So, what now? First—don’t panic. Salvation isn’t ours to give or grant. It’s between our kids and God. He is still in control. Second—keep the door open. Be a good place for honest conversations. Don’t get heated. Tempers lost just slam those doors. Don’t shame them—listen. Third—pray. God’s love pursues. He’s not done with them. Luke 15 tells the story of the prodigal son. The father never stopped loving, never stopped hoping, never stopped waiting. That’s our call too. Keep trusting. Keep loving. God is still writing their story.

I’m not sure moving home is gonna be good

Your adult child has walked away from Christ—and now they’re moving back in. Different values, different choices—what do you do? First, set clear expectations—your home, your rules. If they’re under your roof, respect goes both ways. Second, love them as Christ loves us—not with judgment, but with grace and truth. Pray for them daily. Show them what it means to follow Jesus—not by forcing faith, but by living it out. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense… yet do it with gentleness and respect.” Keep planting seeds. God is still at work.

Should I admit that I sinned to my kids?

Yes! Absolutely! Aaron is a pastor and says, “A parent should repent to their kids.” He’s right. As my wife and I were raising our kids, we made our share of mistakes. In disciplining our kids, I came to realize that when I confessed my sins to my kids, they were more prone to confess theirs. Aaron says, “A lot of Christian kids grow up knowing that their parents are sinners, but never hear their parents confess it.” If we appear holier than our kids and above wrong, it’ll push them away—perhaps preventing them for seeing their need of a Savior. Aaron adds, “One of the best ways to teach our children the gospel is to show them our need for it.” Great words, Aaron.

It’s a free country. I can say what I want!

Can you? While the First Amendment to the United States Constitution guarantees free speech, I guarantee you that if you say something publicly using negative words to describe a race or social behavior, you’ll quickly realize that is TRUE, but you’ll also suffer the consequences of what you say. How do we help our kids use wise words when speaking? Well, there isn’t one easy lesson, but those lessons are laced throughout the Bible. Proverbs 21:23 says, “Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble” (ESV). In other places, it warns us not to use corrupt, filthy, or foolish talk. Instead, it encourages gentle, gracious, and encouraging words. Parents, are we leading by example?

I don’t want my kids to be stingy

Do your kids see generosity as an obligation or an opportunity? The Bible makes it clear—generosity isn’t just a good deed; it’s a way to reflect Christ. 2 Corinthians 9:7 says: “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” That means we give not out of guilt, but out of gratitude. Whether it’s money, time, or talents, our kids need to see us living open-handedly. Because in God’s economy, giving isn’t losing—it’s gaining. Jesus said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Let’s teach our kids to experience the joy of generosity. It really is contagious and biblical.

I want my kids to get a degree, but…

College or trade school—which is the right path? We all want our kids to be successful and provide for themselves and/or their families when they’re adults. The Bible doesn’t tell us, “Thou shalt go to a university,” but it does tell us to seek wisdom and work hard. Proverbs 16:3 says, “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” God calls people to different vocations. Some are wired for academics, others for hands-on skills. Instead of pushing one path or another, let’s help our kids seek God’s will and use their gifts to serve Him—whether they’re in a classroom, a workshop, or on the mission field.

They’re getting so big and it’s unhealthy!

Weight is a tough subject—especially when our kids struggle with it. But should weight loss be about appearance? Not really. God isn’t concerned with size—He’s concerned with stewardship. Our bodies are His temple, and we’re called to honor Him with how we care for them. That means making healthy choices—not to fit a mold, but to live well for His glory. If you’re encouraging your son or daughter to lose some weight for health reasons, do it with love and grace. 1 Corinthians 6:19 reminds us, “your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit…so glorify God with your body.” Health isn’t about perfection and looking better—it’s about honoring the Lord and being a testimony to others.

We don’t agree on anything politically!

Political division in families is hard—especially when our adult kids embrace views that contradict God’s Word. While we should always listen and engage with love, we can’t compromise biblical truth for the sake of unity. Jesus said in Matthew 10:34, “I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.” Standing firm in God’s truth will sometimes bring division. But that doesn’t mean we stop loving our kids or speaking truth in love when unbiblical views are espoused. We speak truth with grace and without wavering. Our job isn’t to change their hearts—that’s the Holy Spirit’s work. We remain faithful, prayerful, and committed to God’s Word, no matter what culture or politics say.

How do I teach kids about budgeting?

Money isn’t just about dollars—it’s about stewardship. Are we teaching our kids that everything they have actually belongs to God? Whether they get an allowance, a part-time job, or birthday money, they need to learn how to manage it wisely. A simple budget? Give first—because generosity honors God. Save next—because the future is uncertain. Spend last—because wise choices matter. Proverbs 3:9 says, “Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the first fruits of all you produce.” When kids understand money is a tool for God’s kingdom—not just their wants—as they follow Christ they’ll grow into faithful generous stewards. How are you handling YOUR money – with open hands, or closed fists?

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